Gaming and Cosplay are often seen as the domain of the young, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Older gamers and cosplayers exist in thriving communities, yet they frequently face dismissive attitudes and outright ageism. Whether it’s being called “too old” for video games or getting side-eyed at a convention, the biases are real. But here’s the thing—we belong here just as much as anyone else.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re pushing against invisible (or not-so-invisible) barriers in these spaces, you’re not alone. The good news? We can challenge these outdated stereotypes and take up space with confidence.
The Myths About Older Gamers and Cosplayers
1. “Gaming is for Kids” – The Biggest Lie Ever Told
Let’s bust this myth once and for all. The average gamer is not some teenager holed up in their bedroom; in fact, studies show that a huge percentage of gamers are in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond. Many of us have been playing since the early days of Atari, NES, and arcade cabinets. Why should we stop now just because a few grey hairs have shown up?
The assumption that gaming is just for kids ignores the fact that it has evolved into a lifelong hobby. Whether you’re into RPGs, first-person shooters, or cozy farming sims, there’s a place for you. And let’s be real—after a long day, few things are as satisfying as taking down a boss battle or finally unlocking that achievement.
2. “You’re Too Old to Cosplay” – Says Who?
Cosplay is about creativity, self-expression, and passion for a character or universe—not age. Yet, many older cosplayers have been told they’re “too old” to dress up, especially if they’re portraying younger characters. The truth? There are no rules in cosplay except to have fun and respect others.
From sewing elaborate costumes to mastering special effects makeup, older cosplayers often bring years of craftsmanship and dedication to their work. Some even cosplay characters from franchises they’ve loved since childhood. The idea that you need to “age out” of something you love is ridiculous.
3. “You Won’t Fit In” – Community Matters
Sometimes, the concern isn’t just external criticism—it’s the fear that we won’t find our people. But gaming and cosplay communities are bigger than ever, and more spaces are opening up for older participants. From online forums to Discord groups to in-person meetups, finding like-minded folks is easier than ever.
Rather than worrying about fitting into a younger crowd, focus on connecting with those who share your interests. Many conventions now feature panels on age diversity in fandoms, and online groups dedicated to older gamers and cosplayers are thriving.
How to Push Back and Take Up Space
1. Own Your Space with Confidence
The first step in overcoming ageism is refusing to shrink yourself. Whether you’re entering a gaming lobby, stepping onto a convention floor, or sharing your hobby online, take up space unapologetically. You have just as much right to enjoy these passions as anyone else.
2. Call Out Ageism When You See It
If someone makes a snide remark about your age in a gaming session or a convention, don’t let it slide. Sometimes, people don’t even realise they’re being ageist. A simple “Why do you think gaming/cosplay has an age limit?” can open up an interesting conversation.
3. Find and Support Age-Positive Communities
Look for gaming clans, cosplay groups, and social media communities that celebrate age diversity. When you find those spaces, contribute! Share your experiences, support fellow older gamers and cosplayers, and show the world that we’re here to stay.
4. Be Visible – Representation Matters
One of the best ways to challenge stereotypes is to simply exist loudly. Post your gaming achievements, share photos of your cosplay, and engage with communities. The more people see older gamers and cosplayers thriving, the less room there is for outdated assumptions.
Endgame Thoughts
Gaming and cosplay are not just hobbies; they’re expressions of creativity, passion, and community. No one ages out of joy, and no one should feel unwelcome in the spaces that bring them happiness. The next time someone tries to tell you that you’re “too old” for gaming or cosplay, remember: their opinion is not a fact. Keep playing, keep dressing up, and keep proving that #funisageless.
# Fun Is Ageless 