There’s something magical about sharing a game with your child. It’s not just about passing the time; it’s about teamwork, laughter, and sometimes a little friendly competition. Whether you’re revisiting the classics you grew up with or letting them introduce you to the latest gaming craze, video games offer a unique way to connect across generations.
Gaming isn’t just for kids, and it’s definitely not just for tech-savvy teens. It’s a shared experience that brings families closer, sparking conversations and creating memories. And if you’re lucky, you might even impress them with your old-school gaming skills!
I’ve seen firsthand how gaming can strengthen bonds. When my nieces and nephews were growing up, Christmas always turned into a Just Sing concert followed by Mario Kart races. No matter what was happening throughout the year, we always came together for those moments, belting out tunes and laughing over chaotic kart crashes. It was the kind of tradition that stuck—one that brought us closer and gave us memories we still talk about today.
1. Introducing Your Kids to the Classics
Before there were sprawling open-world adventures and online multiplayer games, there were pixelated heroes, side-scrolling quests, and the simple joy of Tetris. Sharing these classics with your kids is like giving them a peek into your own childhood.
Games like Pac-Man, Super Mario Bros., and Donkey Kong might not have flashy graphics, but they’re just as fun today as they were decades ago. Many of these games have remastered versions on modern consoles, making it easy to relive the experience together. And let’s be honest—there’s nothing quite like showing your kids that you still remember the secret warp zones in Mario!
2. Letting Your Kids Take the Lead
While it’s fun to introduce your children to the games of your youth, there’s also something special about letting them introduce you to their world. Maybe they’re obsessed with Minecraft, (my son was always obsessed with building glass houses) building elaborate castles and underground lairs, or they can’t stop talking about their latest Fortnite victory. Instead of just nodding along, why not grab a controller and join in?
My son often talks to me in game speak. The other day, we were laughing about our different styles of walking. He always runs ahead, my daughter takes her time, and I’m somewhere in between. He summed it up perfectly: “I’m the speedrunner, you’re the normal player, and she’s the casual player.” It’s little moments like that—when they feel like you truly understand them and vice versa, that makes gaming such a valuable way to connect.
3. Gaming Together: Finding the Right Fit
Not every game is built for multi-generational play, but there are plenty of options that work well for parents and kids. Here are some great picks:
- Mario Kart – Easy to pick up, fun for all skill levels, and perfect for a little friendly competition.
- Minecraft – A creative, open-ended game that lets you build and explore together.
- Lego Games (like Lego Harry Potter or Lego Star Wars) – Lighthearted and great for cooperative play.
- Stardew Valley – A relaxing farming game that’s perfect for bonding over simple tasks.
- Overcooked – A hilarious, fast-paced game about cooking together under pressure.
These games encourage teamwork, creativity, and shared problem-solving—perfect for strengthening the parent-child connection.
4. Bringing in the Grandparents: Gaming Across Generations
Gaming doesn’t have to stop at just parents and kids. Grandparents can get in on the fun too! Whether it’s a nostalgic return to old-school arcade games or something as simple as digital card games, gaming can become a family-wide tradition.
Even if they’re new to the world of video games, there are plenty of easy-entry options, like Wii Sports, Animal Crossing, or even classic board games recreated digitally. Watching a grandparent get competitive over a round of Mario Kart? Priceless.
5. Gaming as a Family Ritual
Incorporating gaming into family life can turn it into a cherished tradition. Maybe it’s a Sunday night Mario Kart tournament or a midweek Minecraft build session. Even just 30 minutes of play together can strengthen your bond and create moments of connection in a busy world.
And if you can’t always be in the same room, online gaming allows for virtual meetups. A quick game of Rocket League or an Animal Crossing visit can keep you connected even when life gets hectic.
Endgame Thoughts
At its core, gaming is about connection. Whether you’re revisiting childhood favourites, learning the ins and outs of your kid’s favourite game, or even getting the grandparents involved, video games are a tool for building relationships.
So the next time your child grabs a controller, don’t just watch—join in! You might just find that gaming isn’t just their hobby—it’s your shared adventure. Because #funisageless!
# Fun Is Ageless 